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Feelings of unworthiness are part of a self-esteem problem. It doesn’t just stem from a difference in academic excellence, but it goes all around.

Guys tie self-esteem to achievements. That’s just how male psyche works. If they have no other achievement besides academics, then it is very hard to not feel inferior to a wife candidate who does better.

Therefore men should excel in more ways than one. This is why people with greater Islamic understanding tend to not be so choosy about their wives. It’s because they have the achievement of Islamic knowledge as some to be proud of.

Of course, we then come to another problem. (more…)